My best GF was buried?

i bought flower for her, i never been to funeral b4 here in america, i did not see people with all the flowers was on the alter of the church i don%26#039;t know if i should take the flower to the flower to the alter, i didn%26#039;t know what to do. i took off from the church, i did not go to burial ground, so now i don%26#039;t know where their burial ground is. what am i going to do with the flower? i left because i was not happy with family they trying put the blame on me because i was the last person she spoke to on the phone.i was only trying to stay out from her family. my question is what should i do with the flower i bought for her?

My best GF was buried?
As a funerla director, here are options we give out:


1. fin out were she was buried, the church would be able to tell you, or if there%26#039;s a local newspaper, go online for the obituary/death notice, and it will tell-- once at the main office of the cemetery, they%26#039;ll direct you to the locatoin





2. give the flower to your best friend, and the two of you can plant it as a memorial gift





3. if all else fails, you can donate it to a hospital/retirement home, etc. in memory of (________________)
Reply:If you don%26#039;t feel comfortable asking where she is buried, have your own private memorial for her. take your flowers to a place that was special to you both and think about happy times.


You don%26#039;t need to know where her resting place is, because she is in your heart.


Sorry for your loss.
Reply:why are they blaming you for ?





just follow the people at the ceremony. dont be nervous. I was accused of killing my ex-girl%26#039;s mother too. Damn i went to her funeral 2 years back . nothing happen.





fake your cry and stomp the ground, CRY OUT REALLY LOUD DUDE. u will be fine. in the end, u%26#039;ll getting an oscar
Reply:Sorry to hear this.


Find out where she is buried, and bring it to her grave. You can find out through friends (hopefully), or ask the family. If you cant do that, then I would keep it. She knows you want to give it to her. I hope you feel better.
Reply:Find out where the grave is and place it on the headstone.





Call someone that was there, call the family. They souldnt be mad at you if you want to pay your condolences.





I am sorry for your loss.
Reply:Ask someone she knew where she is buried, or ask the church. The you could put it on her gravesite. Otherwise just keep it for yourself as a memory of her. Im sorry for your loss!
Reply:Ask the church where she was buried at. They should tell you.
Reply:I am sorry for ur loss my friend...


Find out her grave through friends, goto her and place the flowers on her grave...
Reply:go back to where she is buried and lay it on her place:(


im sorry I know it is rough..
Reply:thats sad.......... im sorry your going through this.....
Reply:Here are my suggestions:





1, Go back to the church, say a little prayer, tell her how much she will be missed, tell her how much you care for her, and leave the flower anywhere at the church.





2, Or if the church is far, go to a quiet place where you both once spent time, say those things, and just leave the flower there.





3. Or if you care about her family, write a letter, to her family (1 letter)





Like:


To .........,





During the church service, my feelings and emotion I could not control. I apologize for leaving the service in such a rush.





Your daughter was a very special person in my life, and she wil be missed always.





I understand your feelings and my condolences are with you.





Sincerely,





Your name





And put the flower with the letter and either mail it , or in a bag and bring it over.





Take care,



super nanny