Girlfriends grandmother died?

My girlfriends grandmother just died, I havent had to deal with anything like this before in a relationship. what should I do. I dont really know her family well, so would it be a bad thing if she said i dont have have to come to the wake of funeral, even if i want to? should I send flowers or something. HELP

Girlfriends grandmother died?
I would go with her unless she asks you not to. Some families are more private than others and it%26#039;s nothing against you.
Reply:GO TO THE FUNERAL AND JUST BE THERE FOR HER.....
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At the start of each new day


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By: Kenny P. aka-Cobra
Reply:Support her. If the family doesn%26#039;t want anyone except themselves on the funeral, accept it. You can go to the cementary with her after some time. Just be there for her. Be patient. Let her cry or talk about her grandmother if she pleases. In such moments you don%26#039;t even have to say anything, just BE.
Reply:Be very supportive to your girlfriend, and you should go to the funereal unless she says otherwise. I know when my grandmom died my boyfriend showed up and it meant so much to me.
Reply:Flowers are a great idea but send to both the funeral home and to you girl Friend. Do as she requests, nothing more. Let her know this is a first for you and she will be not only understanding of your situation but it will stop any pre-conceived notions that you are being stand-offish. Smart kid!
Reply:be supportive of her, and be that shoulder she needs to cry on. if you really want to go to the wake and funeral, let her know again how serious you are about going. she probably wants you to go, but she%26#039;s just saying that you don%26#039;t have to go because she doesnt want to make you.





try sending her and the family flowers, and take her out on a really nice date to cheer her up. call her everyday to see how she%26#039;s doing, and listen to her.





hope i helped



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